PLACE AT THE TABLE
Arnault, wearing Dior, at Diorâs under- renovation flagship in Manhattan. âIt made you dream,â she says of visiting Dior at 30 Montaigne in Paris with her father as a girl. Fashion Editor: Tonne Goodman.
Photographed by Annie Leibovitz
At the end of her first year as Dior CEO, Delphine Arnault is proving to be a powerful protector of legacyâand a leader poised to make waves.
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On the morning of February 1 last year, imperturbably recovered from a party to mark her departure from Louis Vuitton, Delphine Arnault stepped into her new office in Paris as chairman and CEO of Christian Dior. The eldest child and only daughter of Bernard Arnaultâwho is, more often than not, the richest man in the worldâshe had moved up through the ranks of her fatherâs companies at LVMH over the course of a couple of decades, quietly absorbing every aspect of the fashion business. Now here she was, at 47, with the crown jewel in her hands: the first fashion house her father had ever bought, the place where he had taken her at weekends as a child, the home of the much-loved Monsieur Dior (as its employees still call him), who, 77 years ago, changed the way women dreamed about their lives. Christian Dior is a name inextricably linked to the history of Franceâand on that day Delphine Arnault became the first woman ever to be in charge.
Not long afterward she called her friend Larry Gagosian in New York. âLarry,â she said, âIâve got this big office. But itâs lonely up here!â
Being a member of the Arnault family, while companionable in many respects, carries its own form of isolation. Close-knit and very private, the Arnaults have been subject to increased public attention since their patriarch parceled out decision-making responsibilities over the future of LVMH to his five children (via a holding company where they each have a 20 percent stake). âWhen you grow up in a well-known family, you donât have the right to make any mistakes,â Delphineâs brother Antoine explains. âPeople look out for the slightest flaw.â months into her reign at Dior, in the lobby of creative director Maria Grazia Chiuriâs studio in Paris. Discreet in demeanor, fragile featured, with a composure to match her impressive nearly six- foot height, Delphine greets me in a navy Dior trouser suit, her hands in its pockets. Itâs the eve of the spring- summer 2024 show, and in the studio three black leather seats have been arranged in front of a sample of the neon pink and yellow set. Models are walking back and forth, small adjustments made, accessories considered. Tiny turrets of strawberries and raspberries are laid out before us. Maria Grazia, clad in jeans and a black sweater, sits next to Delphine and introduces a little gray poodle, whose color, they both note with a smile, is perfectly on brand. âItâs gris Dior,â Maria Grazia says.
If, in 1947, Christian Dior was telling a story about womenâs livesâthe war theyâd emerged from, the future they hoped forâthen the first two women to lead his company are telling a new one. With Delphine as CEO and Maria Grazia as creative director, the house of Dior is moving into an era in which two busy working mothers are in a position to determine what women wear, how they feel, and how the people who make the clothes feel too. In Maria Graziaâs view, âfashion has to help you to feel that youâre free.â As Marie-JosĂŠe Kravis, a family friend who has sat on the board of LVMH for 13 years, observes, âHere you have two really talented women who are living the message daily. I think itâs a great example for women everywhere.â
As the clothes appear, Delphine and Maria Grazia settle into each otherâs company with ease. Delphine absorbs, never intervenes. She has seen this collection in progress twice before. âEvery time you see it you get to know it a little better,â she tells me. Diorâs 1947 New Look is reflected in black pleated skirts and refracted in asymmetrical white shirt collars. Thereâs an occasional kinky touch from strappy black gladiator boots with kitten heels and pearl buttons. Thereâs a cotton dress made of many different kinds of lace, and a blurred, X-ray-like projection of the Eiffel Tower on a black coat.
âHow many looks do you have?â Delphine asks.

âSeventy-eight,â Maria Grazia replies. âBecause Rachele cut five.â Maria Graziaâs 27-year-old daughter and cultural adviser, Rachele Regini, is behind us, readying the models and overseeing operations. âIsnât she a bit too skinny for this one?â Maria Grazia wonders out loud, about one of the models. She turns to Delphine: âIâm obsessed. I donât want to show too-skinny girls. I want healthy girls.â Then, quietly: âItâs an intense week for you, huh, Delphine?â
Indeed it is. Five days earlier, Delphine and her partner, Xavier Nielâwith whom she has two young childrenâhad attended a dinner at the Palace of Versailles for the King and Queen of the United Kingdom (Queen Camilla was dressed by Dior; the French first lady, Brigitte Macron, was dressed by Vuitton). Delphine wore an embroidered wool haute couture coat with a floor-length gown in lace and champagne-colored crushed silk. Tomorrow she will be speaking for the first time to 600 delegates invited to a Dior Summit at the Louvre, a few floors beneath the Mona Lisa. The same spring summer runway show will be put on for them, and theyâll be entertained with talks, parties, and dinners over the next couple of days. âItâs great for them,â Delphine says, âand I think itâs important.â
At dusk, Delphine and I walk a couple of blocks under her ample umbrella to the Dior boutique, where the delegates to the following dayâs symposium have gathered for welcome drinks. She marvels at Maria Graziaâs calm organization. John Galliano and Raf Simons, she recalls, would be up all night on the eve of a runway show, panicking and remaking things, whereas Maria Grazia is always done on time. (âI think itâs very important not only for me, but also for the people who work with me, to have time for their personal life,â Maria Grazia tells me later. âItâs nice for everybody to have dinner at home.â)
The original site of Christian Diorâs 1947 debut is 30 Avenue Montaigneâor âTrente Montaigneâ for short. Extensively remod-eled, it reopened in its new incarnation in March 2022. And thatâs not the only sign of a company expanding at speed. There are store directors from all over the world hereââthe heart and soulâ of the company, as Delphine will tell them. They havenât been brought together since before COVID, and since then Dior has created more than 6,600 jobs. One million of their iconic Lady Dior bags have been sold.
The delegates are here so they can feel part of something both venerable and newâand keep sales on target. More than 40 languages are spoken among them. Delphine greets as many people as she can, traveling through the US, Mexico, Southern Europe, and Japan in the space of a few minutes. She asks what is and isnât selling, which celebrities young people look up to in different zones, who are the competing brands? And then, always: How is the Lady Dior bag doing? The price was increased globally in July. Is it too high for their particular market?
Meanwhile, there are rowdy whoops from the selfie taking crowdâa giant Dior school reunion. The Korean delegation has gathered for a photo on the new glass staircase designed by Peter Marino. They invite Delphine to join them, and she gamely takes her place at the center of the group.
Some weeks later, Delphine and I have lunch at Le Stresa, a small, family-run Italian restaurant on a side street near the Avenue Montaigne. Itâs a favorite among the fashion and film crowds and is packed with models and moguls during Fashion Week. âI love this place because itâs kind of homey,â Delphine says as she greets one of the brothers on duty. Weâve just spent an hour at the recently rehoused Dior archive, sighing over vintage shoes rescued from flea markets and drawers full of original sketches by Christian Dior and Yves Saint Laurent. Not for the first time, she told her driver that we would walk. With her usual elongated elegance, Delphine is wearing a cropped cream bouclĂŠ jacket with CD logo buttons over black wool trousers and a white slogan T-shirt that alludes to Ădith Piaf. She orders a caprese salad with a minestrone soup, and a conversation emerges around her finely tuned sense of privacy.
The puzzle of speaking to Delphine Arnault is this: She is palpably friendly but relatively silent. In the course of several conversations with her, I didnât get the sense that her brief answers to my questions were a mark of hauteur or even reticence; though she may have been wary of being interviewed, she gave me a number of opportunities to observe her world. It was more that she seemed not to have a narrative relationship to her own life: Nothing came out as a story. This is, perhaps, a form of modesty, and the modesty in turn a mark of politeness. One thing that emerged repeatedly in my conversations with othersâaside from the Arnaultsâ tireless work ethicâwas that they have very good manners. âDelphine has a form of reserve that I find extremely touching,â Antoine Arnault tells me. âSome confuse this with arrogance. My sister is very discreet by nature, and the education we received obviously nurtured this discretion.â When she acts, he says, she acts thoughtfully: âAt 25 itâs called shyness, at 50 itâs maturity.â With me Delphine was at her liveliest when praising others, whether it was the artists whose work she owns or the shop assistant at Dior whoâd been there for decades and had recently broken her foot. Her affection and admiration for her father were equally evident. One person I spoke to described the father-daughter pair as having âdeep respectâ for one another.
âHe never stops,â she says of her father. âSeeing that as a child forms quite an impressionâthe dedication he gives to his workâÂ
I came to think of Delphine as a relative of Henry Jamesâs fictional Maisie: the eldest child of divorced parents who is precociously attuned to what the adults ignore. Sidney Toledano, Delphineâs mentor at Dior, speaks of her resilience (âDonât think life was easy,â he says mysteriously). A photograph of her with her father, taken when she was 16, portrays them as an echo of each otherâDelphine, almost at Arnaultâs height, has a sweetness of expression that makes her look closer to 12. âI think we all forget that she was rather young, still an early teenager, when her father really built LVMH,â Kravis observes, âand her father is a very good teacher. Sheâs grown up with the company.â
âIâve never rebelled,â she says, smiling at the obvious question. Asked if there is a Harry Windsor in the Arnault family, she says, âI hope not!ââand her friends have certainly never heard her say she wants to do anything else. Like her father, Delphine has an instinct for what will sell. Some, but not all, of this comes from experience. âItâs not a rational thing,â she explains; in fact, the only professional challenge she identifies in the course of our lunchtime conversation is that it can be hard to predict, when hiring people, whether they will have this knack. Itâs her fatherâs gift: âWhen he sees 15 bags on the table, he immediately goes to the bag thatâs going to sell,â she tells me in amused amazement.
Delphine is clearly, by nature, a listenerââall ears, all the time,â as one of her friends put it. This unflashy quality may be her greatest strength, and it marks her as unusual in the very male echelons of LVMH: staunch and sensitive in her support of creative people, the originator of a prize for young designers, a proven spotter of talent. If there is a jeopardy at Dior, itâs that it must never fail to lead the creative field, and in that respect Delphine is poised to steer it without ego. Brutal in business, relentlessly hard-working, and firm as a father, Bernard Arnault is known as âthe wolf in cashmere.â In 2022 he persuaded the LVMH board to raise the mandatory retirement age for the chief executive and chairman from 75 to 80. That now gives him another five years to oversee his five children. Unless they get unanimous board approval, they cannot sell their shares in the company for another 30 years, and, after that, they can only pass them on to Arnaultâs direct descendants. The image of sibling unity, while by all accounts accurate, is also a response to a potential vulnerability: Arnault has taken over companies previously owned by warring families.
Though he has repeatedly said itâs not automatic that a child of his should succeed him at the helm of LVMH (it is ânot an obligation, nor inevitable,â he recently told The New York Times), itâs presumed that one of them will eventually take his place. Who that becomes will depend in part on who actually wants the job: Arnault has likened it, tellingly, to a priesthood. Once a month, the father and foreman gathers his children for a 90-minute working lunch on the top floor of the LVMH headquarters at 22 Avenue Mon-taigne. âHeâs involved us from when we were quite young,â Delphine explains. âHe talks to us about the group strategy, discusses questions that arise. Heâs always wanted to pass on his knowledge. Itâs a lot of work to choose the houses one buys carefully.â
Now encompassing more than 70 brands, the LVMH MoĂŤt Hennessy Louis Vuitton group is, as Delphine puts it, âthe leading business in Europe.â In fact itâs the largest luxury conglomerate in the world, encompassing not only fashion labels but hotels, vineyards, a world-class art museum, and a huge amount of very profitable Champagne. Diorâs significance within this empire is not merely sentimental: It controls 41.4 percent of LVMH. The luxury company plays a heritage role, and an ambassadorial one too: Arnault pledged 200 million euros to the restoration of Notre Dame cathedral and is sponsoring this yearâs Paris Olympics to the tune of 150 million euros. French economists have deemed him to be more powerful than a head of state.
His daughter, in a more quiet way, contributes tooâto French schools. âI work a lot with education,â she tells me when I ask about causes she supports. âItâs something I do personally with specific schools that I know, who identify very good talents. Students who are super bright and donât have money to pay for a scholarship, things like that.â Itâs not something she talks about publicly.
The dynastyâs wealth has made them an object of some hostility in certain quarters of a country founded on the principle of âĂŠgalitĂŠâ: Last April protesters stormed LVMH headquarters with smoke bombs during long-running strikes over the national retirement age. Delphineâs response to this is apparent bafflement and hurt, along with protectiveness of the staff. âThat, sadly, had nothing to do with LVMH,â she says, shaking her head. âThey were railway workers. It was intrusive and violentâfor no reason. I found it quite frightening that they could come into the LVMH headquartersâthere were staff who were trapped and inhaled a lot of smoke.â
Although the Arnaultsâ Shakespearean drama has drawn international attention, under French law the redistributive gesture of their patriarch is almost prosaic. Legally, you have to leave assets to your children and couldnât disinherit them even if you wanted to. So while the intrigue over who will emerge at the top remains, the primary interest in the Arnaults is not so much familial as national. Who will be the custodians of these slices of French history, and the guardians of its future economy?

Delphine, then 16, with Bernard Arnault backstage at Paris Fashion Week, 1991. Courtesy of BERTRAND RINDOFF PETROFF, GETTY IMAGES
As the CEO of Dior, Delphine is the protector of a myth. Everything about itâthe original gray and white color scheme, the oval-backed chairs, the references to the New Look, the fabric printed with a map of the streets around the shopâis designed to inspire the sense that if you buy anything by Dior you will own a piece of history. When Maria Grazia looks back to her arrival at Dior seven years ago, she realizes how wrong she was to think of it as a fashion label like any other. âIn Paris, Dior is not a brand. Itâs much more, because itâs part of the history of Paris and of the French,â she explains. âFor me it was initially very difficult to understand this because I came from Italy, and we donât have this kind of relationship with fashion.â This was reinforced by the globe-traveling exhibition âChristian Dior: Designer of Dreamsâ and by the republication of Christian Diorâs autobiography, Dior by Dior (which Delphine recently reread and found to be the template for everything that followed). The expansion of 30 Montaigne now includes the Galerie Dior, where the changing room used by Diorâs original models has been reconstructed to look as though those â50s women had just stepped out to lunch. Even a star-shaped piece of metal that the very superstitious Monsieur Dior found on a sidewalk has been exhibited behind glass, as if it were a Roman relic.
âDior is the most famous French name in the world,â Delphine says confidently.
It was a very healthy, calm lifestyle, centered on studies and sport,â Delphine reflects, of her childhood. âWe werenât allowed to go out much. I mean, a little, but it was all about working hard. Weâd always seen our father working hardâand my grandfather. He was at the office on Saturday morningsâthey worked together. Sometimes Iâd go with them.â
Arnault was born into a family construction business in Roubaix, northern France. His parents married the same year Christian Dior unveiled his New Look, and three years later his maternal grandfather handed the reins of the business to his father. Arnault was just 26 when Delphine was born. He was married then to his first wife, Anne Dewavrin, who was also from the north of France. Delphine has early memories of her motherâs wardrobe in Roubaix: âShe had a â70s look with long skirts and boots. A bit CĂŠline,â she says. Delphine and her younger brother Antoine were âraised with very strict principles,â Kravis tells me. Famously, Arnault would help his children with math before dinner. Delphineâs friend Almine Rechâa gallerist who sold Delphine her first paintingâadds: âThe more advantages you have, the more you have to prove: Thatâs how you are brought up in France.â Though like all siblings she and Antoine would bicker a lot, as the eldest, Delphine was expected to set an example. âDelphâ was a studious child who enjoyed math and economics especially. In fact, she was always so well-behaved that Antoine couldnât quite believe it when he caught her smoking a cigarette out of her window at 16. She insists that she has no creative streak. âWhen I play Pictionary,â she says, âno one wants to play with me!â She was also keen on tennisâas an adult she has played with Roger Federer and his wife, but it was paddle tennisâŚ. As Antoine remarks wryly: âDespite her perseverance, I have to admit that she is less gifted than the Williams sisters!â The Arnault children were brought up to be competitive: âJust, you know, trying to do your best,â Delphine says. âThatâs what you doâof course being very considerate of others, but always trying to do the best you can do.â âThat sounds exhausting,â I suggest. Delphine laughs. âYeah. It is exhausting!â She remembers fondly the three less-driven years they spent in the US, living in New Rochelle, New York, while her father attempted to set up a US branch of the family real estate business. âIt was a Franco-American school, so half the classes were in French and half in English. I think American school is less pressurized, so it was fun.â The family returned to France when Delphine was 10, by which time she was fully bilingual.
It was around then that her father made his first acquisition: a company that included the house of Dior. âHeâs always had a particular affection for it,â Delphine says. âHe had this vision very early on: to make Dior the most desirable brand in the worldâalong with Vuitton!â she adds quickly. At the time, the company that owned Dior was in bankruptcy. There were, Delphine says, âfive Dior shops.â Now there are 245. Arnault took Delphine to 30 Montaigne straight away. âI was pretty awestruck,â she recalls. âIt was fascinating for a small girl to arrive at Diorâto see all those dresses, the bags, the hatsâŚ. It made you dream.â I suggest that must have given her quite a bit to talk about with her school friends. Immediately, the family modesty takes over, as if shutting a door. âWe didnât speak about that,â she says quickly.
That first visit to Dior was the beginning of a long-standing habit: Arnault went on to take his children into stores every Saturday, paving the way for the sorts of trips he makes with Delphine now. âWhen I go to Asia with him, as I have several times this year,â she says, âwe spend a week visiting a huge number of shops.â These tours are like celebrity appearancesâArnault is often delightedly mobbed in China. On their most recent visit, she reports, laughing a little, âwe visited 250 shops in five cities, walked an average of 15,000 steps per day, were on our feet for 16 hours a day, in 95-degree heat. He never stops. Seeing that as a child forms quite an impressionâthe dedication he gives to his work.â
When she was 15, her parents divorced, and Arnault married the Canadian concert pianist HĂŠlène Mercier. (Arnault also plays classical piano, and the children were brought up to do that too, though Delphine claims, once again, to have no creative talent.) Arnault and Mercier went on to have three sons togetherâAlexandre, FrĂŠdĂŠric, and Jean. The latter two were taught literature by the future first lady Brigitte Macron, who remains a good friend of Delphineâs. DewavrinââMamouneâ to her grandchildrenâhas since married Patrice De Maistre, the former wealth manager of Liliane Betten-court. Antoine observes that Delphine is like their mother âin her altruistic and pleasure-seeking character. Both of them cultivate the French âart de vivreâ and a remarkable sense of family.â At 17, Delphine sold perfume at Dior, before going to the London School of Economics and to business school in Lille. She was given her first Louis Vuitton bag at 18âa NoĂŠ. Though she worked at McKinsey for a couple of years after graduating, she was always bound for the family firm. As Toledano puts it, she âhas Dior in her blood.â
Delphine Arnaultâs sense of humor tends toward irony. âHer humor has a nice bite to it,â Gagosian comments, âbut sheâs never mean.â Long-term collaborators have benefited from the scale of her vision, the nuance in her approach and the mischief in her smile. Sheâs passionate about contemporary artistsâtheir lives as much as their workâand has brought them into the fold with great commitment. She has a fearless relationship to risk, but is more moderate and ana-lytical in her thinking than many in the fashion world, who rely on impulse or intuition. Beneath her sleek exterior, she is a woman who gets to work and gets the joke. Rech reminds me that the Arnaults are from the north of France. As a result, she says, the family sense of humor is basically British.

Delphine with her younger brother
Antoine Arnault in Paris, 2011. Courtesy of BERTRAND RINDOFF PETROFF, GETTY IMAGES
Delphineâs first job within LVMH after graduating was with John Galliano in 2000. She was 25. Galliano was at Dior but also working on his JG label out of an old doll factory in the 11th arrondissementâthatâs where Delphine began. At the time, they were reviewing the brandâs graphic identity, and Delphine helped Galliano find graphic designers, manufacturers, and suppliers. Very quickly, Galliano remembers, she could see what he was looking for: âa sense of irony. Sometimes that doesnât work in France.
And honestly, she just got the right people together.â When Gallianoâs Jack Russell terrier had a litter, Delphine took one of the puppies.
Delphine married Alessandro Vallarino Gancia, the heir to an Italian wine fortune, in 2005, and Galliano designed her a fairytale wedding dress that took some 1,300 hours to make. âThat was fun,â he remembers. âThe fittings were bonkersâall the in-laws were there, the real mother, hundreds of guests including politicians, business leaders, actors, and fashion stars; âthe Mount Olympus of VIPs,â according to Le Mondeâtook place at the Château dâYquem, owned by Delphineâs father. It was on the cover and took over 22 pages of Paris Match. The marriage lasted five years.
Delphine wasnât in charge of Dior in 2011 when Galliano was dismissed after making antisemitic remarks to strangers, but, as she recalls, âI was in the room when my fatherâs assistant came in and said, âJohnâs been arrested by the police.â It was a shock. The things he expressed, the words he said: They werenât acceptable,â she says, more in sadness than anger. âIt was a very tough moment for the house. But itâs in moments like those that one learns a huge amount.â
A year earlier, Delphine had started seeing her current partner, Xavier Niel. Sometimes referred to as âthe French Steve Jobs,â Niel is a tech billionaire who founded the telecom company behind the French internet service provider Free, and who is also co-owner of Le Monde. If Delphine is influenced by her father, her outlook on life is now shared with Niel, a businessman who did not grow up wealthy and who is something of a hero in France thanks to his large-scale gestures in support of new talent. His business incubator, Station F, is known as the worldâs largest startup facility, and 42 is a pioneering free computer science school.
Niel, who dropped out of school at 19, made his first million by the age of 24 in a colorfully French way: by inventing a sex chat service for the Minitel, Franceâs pre-cursor to the internet. Evan Spiegel, the cofounder and CEO of Snap, describes him as âan unbelievable friend and mentor to me.â In his early 20s Spiegel would stay in the Arnault-Nielsâ pool house when he came to Paris, and when he went out walking with Niel people would come up to Niel in the street âto thank him for what heâd done for France.â Now Spiegel and his wife, Miranda Kerrâwho were introduced to each other by the coupleâhave bought a house next door.
Delphine and Xavierâs daughter, Elisa, is 11, and their son, Joseph, is 7. (Niel also has two older sons from a previous relationship.) Becoming a mother puts things into perspective, Delphine suggests: âEverything becomes relative.â âSheâs an incredibly concerned mother,â Rech had told me of Delphine. âI remember how happy she was when she was pregnant, with her boy. She had a few weeks where she could not go to her office and she could go to school, whenever it was the moment, to pick up Elisa.â A few years before Gallianoâs departure, Delphine had befriended another designer. âWe had many secret meetings,â Nicolas Ghesquière recalls. âItâs quite funny to think about it nowâParis is very big but also very small.â He was at Balenciaga, she was deputy managing director at Dior, but she also played an important role in the search for talent in the wider group. They spoke about a job, but Ghesquière wasnât ready to move. Even years later, when he was offered the post as creative director of womenswear at Vuitton, he said no initiallyâuntil he discovered that Delphine would be moving there too. âAnd that was the deciding factor for me.â She has, he says, changed his life.
In the early days at Vuitton, they did everything by hand. âYou cut out prototypes, workshop them, remake new prototypes. I donât think people imagine thatâs how itâs done,â Ghesquière says. âDelphine was with me throughout. Weâd be at lunch with the Princess of Monaco for a Vuitton project on Monday, and on Tuesday weâd be sitting on the floor of the studio cutting out pro-totypes for bags. It was a really fun time.â Ghesquière remembers that they would often be in fits of laughter.
Delphine introduced Ghesquière to the people heâs still working with nowâshe built the team not only for the sake of the work, Ghesquière says, âbut with our well-being in mind too.â It didnât surprise him at all when Delphine founded the LVMH Prize 10 years agoâher gift for talent-spotting and support was already marked. âIt reveals a lot about herâthe way she thinks about the future,â he says. Much of what Ghesquière came to understand about Delphine he observed from dressing her. For 10 years, she wore his clothes every day, and told him how she felt in them. Inspired by her, he âchanged a thousand things: lengths, fluidity of materials, structure.â Clothes accompany our feelings, he reflects. âIf youâre feeling vulnerable youâre going to protect yourself a bit, if you feel stronger youâll need that less.â He suggests that such an intimate knowledge of this in a CEO will make an enormous differenceâit matters that she is a woman. The visitor to Delphine Arnault and Xavier Nielâs home in the 16th arrondissement of Paris is greeted by a rounded entrance hall, and by ground floor rooms with curved edges and generous floral arrangements, leading to giant French doors and a garden. The space offers a kind of instant calm.
One evening last fall, as respectful staff took my coat, Delphine strode forth from the living room: warm, commanding, composed. She had been at the office all day but was now wearing a fluid black suit designed by Maria Grazia: wide silk velvet trousers and a velvet-fronted double- breasted jacket, cinched at the waist but worn with such ease that it could have been pajamas. In heels she was architectural, taller than all of her guests except one: the spirited SĂŠgolène Gallienne, her best friend since the age of five. The two of them look practically like twins, and on the sofa they sat close together, both dressed in Dior, SĂŠgolèneâs hands resting on Delphineâs knee as they spoke with relaxed intimacy.
SĂŠgolène and Delphine first met because they had the same swimming instructor in Saint-Tropez, where they have continued to spend summers. SĂŠgolèneâs father, the late Belgian billionaire Albert Frère, was the co-owner, with Bernard Arnault, of the Château Cheval Blanc winery. Friends reminisce about nights out with the family: Alexandre DJâing in nightclubs, the women fond of tequila shots, Karl Lagerfeld in tow. âShe likes to have a good time,â Gagosian says of Delphine, admiringly. Rech fondly points out that Delphine is so disciplined sheâll be with her personal trainer early in the morning, no matter how late sheâs stayed out the night before.
While the guests had drinks before dinner, Elisaâwho is tall like her motherâdarted in and out of the living room in jeans and a green T-shirt. On the walls were works by Cindy Sherman, Takashi Murakami, and Henry Taylor. Throughout the house there were metalwork furniture pieces by the Lalannes, who used to work for Dior in the days of Saint Laurent. Sculptures by Frank Gehry and Ugo Rondinone stood in the garden. (While the Fondation Louis Vuitton collects art, Delphine buys art she wants to live with.)
Mark Bradford, whose monumental painting of an aerial view of Los Angeles hangs above the dining table, is a regular visitor to the house. âItâs very comfortable for me,â he tells me. Bradford, a defiantly political (and hugely successful) artist who grew up in South Central LA, laughs over promising to take Delphine to a soul food restaurant (âSheâll be totally fine!â), and says: âShe comes from a famous family. But that doesnât have anything to do with me and her sitting around talking. You can see the love in her family. Some people you see and they feel like a warm blanket.â
That eveningâs 11 guests, who included Eva Jospin and Jean-Michel Othonielâartists Delphine had collaborated withâa curator, a furniture designer, and the pho-tographer Brigitte Lacombe, withdrew to the small round dining room, dimly lit and spectacularly decorated with an autum-nal centerpiece made of purple calla lilies and russet leaves. The glass plates were hand-painted with lily of the valley, a Dior motif. Circumspect servers brought cured fish, a meltingly good steak, baked apples with caramel ice cream, and a tower of tiny chocolates. The conversation flowed: the exceptional art exhibitions in Paris, homes in the country, the last years of Yves Saint Laurent, Lagerfeldâs insatiable reading habits, the belief that Dior still mattered because Christian Dior himself was a benevolent figureâunlike Coco Chanel.
Delphine and her partner looked at each other indulgently, and there was some gentle teasing across the table. âSheâs his biggest cheerleader. Heâs her biggest cheerleader,â Bradford says of them. In some relationships, one partner gets all the attention, he observes, but not in this one: âShe smiles when heâs talking and he smiles when she talks. I think itâs healthy for the soul. You absolutely see it in them.â
They both stand in the hallway to say goodbye, snatches of conversation still floating in the air as their guests emerge, past the gates and the guards, into the Paris night.